The notebook is a classic romance written by Nicholas Sparks. This book was made into a movie a couple years after the book was written and one of my favorite actresses ( Rachel Mcadams) plays the main character. Every time i watch this movie it makes me realize the deep impact that our first true loves have on us. The main character alli, carelessly cheats on her fiance when she sees noah (her first love) for the first time in seven years. She realizes that she's herself when she's with noah and is someone totally different when she is with her fiance.
Being in an on and off relationship throughout college, I realized that once you fall completely, hopelessly, and deeply in love with one guy you can never give that kind of love ever again to another. It's like your heart reserves one single spot for that guy and once that spot is taken, it can never be replaced. When i think about ever loving someone as much as i love my "first love", i find it an impossible task to do. But who knows, i could be wrong about this theory of first loves..but through my experiences and other people's experiences, i find this to be true.
The notebook is such a sweet movie but at the same time, really unrealistic. It's funny because when i watch crazy romantic movies like this, i secretly think that this kind of love exists out there somewhere :)
It does it does it does! And you will find it, or it will find you :)
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